I have a doubt – There are some things like Golu and Varaha Maha Lakshmi Pooja that a married girl is supposed to do only if there is a vazhakam of the same at the maamiyaar’s place. What if the girl has a GREAT desire to do all this, has always dreamt of it, but it is not done at the MIL’s place?
Should she just go ahead and do it, following her heart? Or, should she never do it in life, as it would invite the wrath of God, as some people say? If she decides to do it, is there any initiation proceedure that she is supposed to do?
Pliss to consult your ammas and paatis and maamis and elders and let me know!! Thanks!
PS: Maybe I am falling into the category of ‘smug-marrieds’, as Bridget Jones says!
PS 2: I really want a serious answer to this one, pliss!